Sensual Massage :
How to give  a very erotic experience

A sensual massage is the combination of relaxation, arousal, massage and sex; all wrapped up into one breathtaking experience. This is a fabulous way to start or end any passionate evening.

Here are some items you may need. Some of these items are essential while others are *optional. Feel free to add the optional items to heighten your experience.

 Room with dim lighting
Comfortable area to lie down
Clean, moisturized hands with trimmed nails
Edible Lotion, oil, talc free powder or silicone lube Light sheet to cover
*Soft music 
* Hot Heart Massagers
* Caress Me Candles
* Massage table or covered dining table with soft pillows and bedspread
* Bowl of warm water

Setting the Scene

First, decide where this will take place. Will it be the bedroom, the living room or the dining room? A table will work best as you can maneuver around it more easily than a bed.  Adjust the room to a comfortable temperature and turn off any overhead fans. Dim the lights or light some pleasantly scented candles. If you like, try our Caress Me Candles which double as a massage oil. If you have chosen to use a table, lay a bedspread down on top with a pillow at the head and a pillow at the knees for comfort when massaging the front of the body.  Use the light sheet to cover up with.

Choose your potion. You can massage with edible lotions, oils, silicone lube or even a talc free powder. Have fun with it; explore different sensations each time you give a massage.  Keep in mind that oils and some lotions are not safe for internal use. You can warm your lotions by keeping them in a warm bowl of water, do not use the microwave. If using the Hot Heart Massagers make sure they are ready to go. Next, play some soft, commercial free, romantic music. Turn off any cell phones and your home phone. Wash your hands and trim your nails. Remove any jewelry from yourself and your partner. Secure long hair.

 The Appetizer

Have your partner lie face down on the table or bed. Cover any areas that are not being massaged with a light sheet to prevent getting a chill. Place a good amount of oil or lotion in the palm of your hands and rub together all the way up to the elbows. Never apply the oil directly to your partner straight from the bottle as this can be very uncomfortable and ruin the mood. Always apply from your hands or arms.

 You can start at the feet or the legs and slowly work your way up. Apply firm, not hard pressure. This is a very sensual type of movement, think tease, not squeeze. Gently massage in circular motions and give long slow strokes.
 

The Main Course

 As you reach the inner thigh why  not explore a little deeper? Again, think tease. You want this experience to last so it will be a memorable one. Note: If you will be exploring your partner internally make sure you are using a non oil based sugar free lubricant safe for penetration.

 If you have purchased the Hot Heart Massagers you can take one in each hand and gently work up the back and down the arms. Remember this is very sensual so you don’t have to just use your hands. Have fun with it, explore the body with your mouth, arms and other well oiled body parts if you wish. You can massage and tease all areas of the body. Pay close attention to those forgotten areas too such as the ear lobes, toes, hands, face and even the top of the head.

The Dessert

 To really heighten the mood why not lean close and use your hot breath as well? Sensual massage can be a highly erotic experience and is also a wonderful means of foreplay. You can rub your bodies together all sorts of ways using each crevice and fold as you wish. See if you can bring each other to orgasm without having actual vaginal penetration.

 Now, If you got hot and bothered just reading this article just imagine how you will feel when you take the time to experience this. You do not have to save a moment like this for a special evening; why not give your partner one tonight just because you love them? No matter whom the giver or the receiver, when incorporating the right moves and motions each partner will enjoy this just as much as the other. 

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